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HOW TO WIN THE POWER TUSSLE AT HOME

(An Advice To Men)

Do you know why your children will disobey you. even when they are still tender and living under your roof ?

WHY BEING TOO FRIENDLY BREEDS DISRESPECT

Being too friendly invites a lot of disrespect. This statement, at first glance, may seem harsh or counterintuitive, especially when we are often taught that kindness and friendliness are virtues that foster positive relationships. And while that’s true, there’s a fine line between being genuinely kind and allowing others to take advantage of that kindness. When you're too friendly, especially without setting boundaries, you may unknowingly open the door for others to treat you with disrespect.

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THE SECRET OF A HIGH VALUE WOMAN

By Kemi Shogunle

This book is a self-help book that aims to empower women to recognize their worth and live authentically.

Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart: WHY THE TV SERIES MATTERS

By Uzor Maxim Uzoatu

The recent announcement of the proposed adaptation of Chinua Achebe’s classic novel Things Fall Apart as a global television series with the iconic actor, Idris Elba, starring as Okonkwo has animated the cultural firmament of the world. David Oyelowo’s Studio A24 will serve as producers of the TV series in partnership with Achebe Masterworks.

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The Power Of Body Language: HOW TO GET PEOPLE TO DO WHAT YOU WANT

By Gregory Hartley and Maryann Karinch

10 practical lessons from "Get People to Do What You Want: How to Use Body Language and Words for Maximum Effect":

Read Body Language: Understand nonverbal cues like posture, facial expressions, and gestures. People often communicate more with their bodies than their words.
Master Your Body Language: Be mindful of your own posture, facial expressions, and eye contact. Project confidence, openness, and trustworthiness through nonverbal communication.
Mirror and Match: Subtly mimic the other person's body language to build rapport and create a sense of connection.
Active Listening is Key: Pay close attention to what the other person is saying, both verbally and nonverbally. Ask clarifying questions and show genuine interest to build trust.
Speak Clearly and Confidently: Use a confident tone of voice, avoid filler words like "um" and "ah," and enunciate clearly to command attention.
The Power of Storytelling: Weave stories and anecdotes into your communication to make your message more memorable and engaging.
Frame Your Requests Effectively: Learn how to phrase your requests in a way that is more likely to be met with a positive response. Focus on benefits and mutual gain.
Harness the Power of Silence: Don't be afraid to use strategic pauses in conversation. This can create anticipation and allow the other person to reflect on what you've said.
Read People's Instincts: Develop your ability to pick up on subtle cues that reveal a person's underlying trust or mistrust. Be Authentic: While these techniques can be helpful, don't resort to manipulation. The most effective communication is built on authenticity and genuine connection. NNL.